Confident Life

www.confidentlife.com is mobile!

jillmytton — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 11:19:50 +0000

We really like to look after our members and we realise that many of you are accessing the internet from a mobile device. So we wanted to give you the best possible experience from your iphone, ipad or smart phone so we are now have a mobile site so

- New members can register without pre-sign up from a desktop site;

- A multi-button dashboard allows members to access a variety of sections and undertake many key actions including Messages, Winks, Who’s Viewed Me and Favourites;

- The dynamic member profile view enables you to see the commonly viewed information about a member, with display optimisations depending on how complete your profile is.

- Local member search – using the mobile device’s built in geo-location (GPS) information;

- Advanced search functionality – equal to that of the search capability available to desktop users;

- The ability to upgrade to full membership to get the best experience from the mobile site. As a basic member you will be prompted to upgrade when attempting to send or read messages;

- Our mobile site accepts all common debit / credit card types from both Visa and MasterCard, plus Premium SMS and PayPal;

- To ensure the best possible experience for the greatest proportion of users, the mobile platform has been tested with iPhone, Android, Blackberry, Windows Phone and Symbian along with many other popular mobile devices.

You can take www.confidentlife.com with you wherever you go so there really is no excuse for being lonely. Get online and meet new people today!

Easter Sale: 40% OFF Membership Prices

jillmytton — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 12:08:58 +0000

So you read your messages last night. You discovered an amazing person who you would like to get to know better and you want to contact them again. To help you we are offering 40% off all our membership subscription fees for today only! Don’t miss out sign up and find someone special.

Easter Treat: Free Read offer for Singles 40 Plus

jillmytton — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 12:05:39 +0000

Easter promises new beginnings and we want to help you live an amazing life. We are offering a FREE read tonight between 18.00-22.00 of all your messages. Upload your profile, if you haven’t already, and tonight read all your messages without spending a penny.
Discover someone special in the next 24 hours.

Singles 40 Plus: Are you ready for love?

jillmytton — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 13:51:46 +0000

Many singles over 40 moan about their lack of success at online dating however what is vitally important is that you have the right attitude and are emotionally ready to form new relationships.
So to ensure you can really benefit from what www.confidentlife.com has to offer read the following statements. If you agree with all of them, go forth and conquer. If not, pay attention to those areas you need to work on.
1. “I’m totally over my previous relationship.”
In order to be really available, you must be absolutely ready to move past your previous love and devote yourself to another person. That doesn’t mean you don’t honour your 40-year marriage that ended with the death of your spouse, but it does mean that you won’t be constantly comparing new women to your late wife or new men to the husband who left you for his secretary. The grief of losing someone is genuine and legitimate, but if you are still grieving, you are in no shape to meet someone new.
2. “I am not bitter about the past.”
When dating, most people want to avoid a person who comes with too much baggage. That’s the individual who’s still carrying the unpleasant events and feelings of their past relationships into the present. Bitterness in any form — even if justified — will send most new people running as fast as they can in the opposite direction.
3. “I don’t want to divulge everything about myself right away.”
People who reveal everything on a first, second or third date risk overburdening the fledgling relationship with too much information. Someone who has a chronic or life-threatening illness, for example, might feel compelled to talk about it, even during a first meeting. But this goes against the first rules of dating: Keep it light, and let your date see your most attractive characteristics first. There will be plenty of time to exchange more profound information, if there is enough interest and attraction between you.
4. “I know how to listen.”
Of course we all like to talk about ourselves and the things that interest us. But a common mistake is to be so overwhelming that the other person never gets to say anything about him or herself. Truly, the most winning way to get to know people is to get them to talk about themselves — and really listen closely. Ask questions; help them be comfortable with you, and then reciprocate. You need give and take, and being the life of the party isn’t required.
Wishing you love and happiness from all at www.confidentlife.com

10 Reasons to try online dating with www.confidentlife.com in 2012!

jillmytton — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 18:04:00 +0000

Ten Reasons To Try Online Dating

www.confidentlife.com is a site for mature singles and as we all know online dating is getting more and more popular as people see the benefits of using the internet to find a partner. If you’ve not tried online dating before, here are ten reasons why you should give it a try.

1. Convenience. Online dating is something you can do from the comfort of your own living room wearing an old jumper, a pair of jeans with a hole in the knee and last nights pizza on the chair next to you. No more going out to seedy or dubious bars or clubs. Date when you want and where you want.

2. Numbers. www.confidentlife.com has members joining every day so the number of people to choose from grows every month. Using traditional offline dating methods, you were restricted by the number of people in the bar or club you were at. Online dating means you have the choice of thousands of prospective dates.

3. Diversity. www.confidentlife.com is specifically for singles 40 plus but attracts members from all areas of the UK. You can be as choosy as you want regarding who you want to meet and where you want them to be located. Find me a bar anywhere in the world which would offer you this level of choice.

4. Simplicity. www.confidentlife.com is so easy to use that you don’t need to understand computers at all. You upload your profile in minutes and can even join by using your Facebook account. By the time you have boiled the kettle for a cup of coffee you are ready to start receiving e-mails.

5. Control. You are in control of the situation the whole time. You decide whether you want to make contact or respond to a contact sent to you. How regularly you log on or check messages is up to you. Whether you want to be seen online is up to you. The information you give out is up to you.

6. Choice. You can tailor your online profile and search to your exact requirements. www.confidentlife.com allows you to choose the options you want in an ideal partner. You can choose based on physical criteria, education, personality, lifestyle, location.

7. Friends. A lot of people join online dating sites not just to date but to make new friends. If you’ve just moved to a new town or city, what better way to make new friends than to find like minded singles of the same age in your local area?

8. Instant. Time is a precious commodity so why waste it looking for love in a bar when you can find someone online within a few mouse clicks and start chatting to them instantly?

9. Variety. There are hundreds of members on www.confidentlife.com out there so if you will be constantly contacted by new people joining the site.

10. Fun. The most important reason for members joining www.confidentlife .com is that it’s fun and makes you feel special!

Christmas Singles: Fun & Romantic Christmas Dating Tips

jillmytton — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 13:22:57 +0000

Christmas is not only a family holiday it is also a great opportunity to build new relationships. Try to make this Christmas unforgettable by inviting your new www.confidentlife.com friend on a Christmas date.

These are our top Christmas date ideas to turn Christmas chores into fun Christmas dates?
Decorate the tree together. Decorating the tree can be a pleasure or just another job on the Christmas list but when you do it with a new date, it can be fun and revealing. What are your date’s memories of childhood? What decorations do they like on a tree? The activity will help you both chat easily and learn far more about each other.
Watch a romantic Christmas movie. After you have bought a DVD for your annual Christmas movie (romantic comedy is the best choice) you can buy some wine, fruits and enjoy a cuddly night in on a Christmas evening.
Prepare a Christmas dinner for just the two of you. I don’t mean making a huge Christmas dinner for your Christmas date. What I do mean is to prepare a small dinner with party food for example, sausage rolls, potato skins, and some cheese and biscuits. Pick up a prepared dessert from your local bakery to make this Christmas date even easier.
View the Christmas Lights. You can go for a romantic Christmas date by going for a late night drive to look at the Christmas lights in your local town. This brings out the magic Christmas atmosphere and gives you a great opportunity for conversation.
Go Christmas Shopping. You still don’t know what Christmas gift to buy for your new partner? Stop thinking and go shopping together. This is another fantastic opportunity to make a Christmas date useful and romantic.
Play in the snow. If it starts to snow, then spend some time outside acting like a kid. Get into a snowball fight, build a snowman, and make angels in the front garden. Just stay away from anything yellow!
Sledging. If you are feeling active take skies or a sledge and go sledging by moonlight down a local hill.
Light a log fire. If you have a fireplace or log burner in your house can light a log fire, especially if you place pine cones between the logs to add a lovely aroma to the fire. Snuggle on the sofa by the glowing fire and toast marshmallows.
Christmas dancing. If you and your date like to dance you can make romantic Christmas date at home. Light candles, put some romantic music on and slow dance privately at home on a cold winter’s evening.
Visit a coffee shop. If you don’t like to cook at home you can go to your favourite coffee shop, or cappuccinos or hot chocolate and talk about your dreams and wishes for 2012.
Plan summer vacations. If you are planning to go on holiday together with your new friend this could be a great Christmas idea. Brew some coffee, put two chairs by the computer and go online and plan and book a spring or summer holiday that you can look forward to together.

We hope some of these ideas are useful and Have a happy and romantic Christmas date!

Singles 40m Plus: Single Parent dating SUCCESS!

jillmytton — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 16:31:10 +0000

“I had been separated from my ex for 8 months when I first looked at www.confidentlife.com With having young children I don’t socialise away from home much and I was looking for a friend with common interests to talk too rather than a life partner and I made this clear in my profile on the site. The good thing about www.confidentlife.com is that you can immediately see what you have in common and what you don’t by customising your search. I liked the personality profiling, so you could see how someone might handle different situations and if they were an extrovert etc. I had always received a steady stream of messages on the site so you need to know what qualities you’re looking for in another person. I always replied politely and asked questions back, but I think you know fairly soon if you’re going to get along with someone.

I was using www.confidentlife.com for about a month when I received a message from someone who shared many of the same interests as me. We had both separated from our partners within the last 12 months and although I was the only one with children, we both didn’t feel ready for a new relationship at that point. After a few weeks we were chatting on www.confidentlife.com almost every day! I decided that I wanted to meet up in person for a coffee while the children were out for the day, so we met in a place half way between us that we were both familiar with. That coffee lasted 3 hours – it felt right as soon as we saw each other.

Six months on from that day and we are now in a loving relationship. The children approve of my new relationship which is very important to me. I have recommended using www.confidentlife.com to a few of my close friends who are in the same situation as I was.’’

- Writer’s identity anonymous to protect identity.

Singles 40 Plus: Dating advice for Single Parents

jillmytton — Tue, 13 Sep 2011 18:18:28 +0000

Online dating sites aren’t just for young, unmarried individuals. There are plenty of single parent mums and dads looking for love but bear these tips in mind before seeking them out!

Any single parent who wants to find a match both inside and out knows how tough the process can be! Not only are many single mums and dads busy with work and supporting their families, investing time in their children on the weekends can eliminate any time spent on themselves. Many parents playing a solo role in their child’s life may wish to find true love, but can’t imagine making it back out in the dating world. Keep these tips in mind and your chances of finding love may be greatly improved!:

Never feel like you’re alone-you’re among nearly 15 million single individuals bringing up children.

Despite any reservations you may have, dating is ok at any age!

Talk with your children if you’re going on a date or bringing a new guy or gal home. The more comfortable you make them feel; the less likely they’ll perceive you’re dating as a threat.

Don’t get involved with an individual you have doubts about. Chances are, if your intuition says no, this person isn’t right for you or your family.

When using Confident Life be honest about your expectations and family life. Your potential partner will accept every aspect of your life if they’re right for you!

If someone doesn’t like that you have children, don’t try to change their mind. They either like the total package or they’re not worth it.

When using Confident Life, always remember to keep your profile up-to-date and straightforward and you’ll be quick to attract someone who accepts you for who you are!

Confident Life.com is a national social networking site aiming to connect singles for fun and relationships.

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Singles 40 Plus: Bank Holiday Monday Free Read

jillmytton — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 13:27:30 +0000

Its nearly Bank Holiday Monday when the holiday season comes to an end and things can seem a little flat so to give you an extra special opportunity to meet new friends and possibly “the one” we are offering you a Free Read of all your messages from 6.p.m. until 8.p.m. on Bank Holiday Monday. We are also offering some fanatastic membership offers over the weekend. If you have been putting off joining or completing your profile this is the time to be bold and take the opportunity of meeting new people!! After all life is for living.

Singles 40 Plus: Ladies needed for friendship and romance

jillmytton — Sat, 13 Aug 2011 14:32:23 +0000

Well, you know how it is you can have loads of ladies who are single joining http://www.confidentlife.com one week and then loads of guys. A recent survey we carried out showed we have a surplus of geniune men wanting to meet the right person for romance and friendship right now. So if you are single and over 40 or you have friends who are please encourage them to visit our site. It is absolutely free, to join up, send winks and an icebreaker message. Our site is moderated this means that any spammers or people who don’t have geniune e-mail addresses or send inappropriate messages to members are automatically removed from the site. This attention to detail keeps you safe and ensures that you meet people who have been screened. We are also a niche site for over 40’s and niche site have a far greater success rate at helping people meet new partners.

Many of our members are now enjoying life more because they have met a new partner through us and they have love in your life. Don’t miss out on happiness, don’t let fear hold you back. Get on board and you might meet your soulmate in the next few days.