BE FEARLESS
O.K. you keep looking at www.confidentlife.com you read our e-flyers but something keeps holding you back form taking any action. What is it? It’s usually the F word, no not the one Gordon Ramsey repeats frequently but FEAR.
As we get older we have experienced disappointment frequently in our lives and we get to like the taste of it less. However, failure and disappointment is the only true path to success. Does a child stop learning to walk because it keeps falling down? Do parents watching say “you’ll never do it so stop trying”. No! We let ourselves get worn down by teachers, well meaning or not so well meaning friends into not moving out of our comfort zone. “Internet dating that’s for losers” your friends will say “what do you want to do that for”. It is quite simple and logical meeting the right person is a numbers game and with the beauty of our site you can meet hundreds if not thousands of new people at the click of a mouse. You can reject the ones you don’t want make to contact with the ones you like and keep dating until the “right one” , and yes you will know, appears. Don’t act desperate and go crazy over the first few dates, take your time and enjoy the journey. What’s the worst that can happen a boring night with someone you will kindly let know isn’t the right person for you? You can also select any age of person you might want to meet this site may be aimed at the over 40’s but all you have to do is change the age ranges in the search criteria and put the age range you want to meet on your profile and you can meet who you want when you want.
So be FEARLESS and to me FEARLESS is not the absence of fear. It’s not being completely unafraid. FEARLESS is having fears. FEARLESS is having doubts. FEARLESS is falling madly in love again, even though you’ve been hurt before. . FEARLESS is getting back up and fighting for what you want over and over again…even though every time you’ve tried before, you’ve lost. It’s FEARLESS to have faith that someday things will change. But no matter what love throws at you, you have to believe in it. You have to believe in love stories and happily ever after because love is always FEARLESS.
Jill Mytton
