40 plus dating-What to wear on a 40 plus date?
So you have been contacting each other on a regular basis and now there is the big question of when to meet up and making arrangements on where to meet and when that there is the million dollar question of what to wear on a date. This is where mature dating starts to get tough.
For many mature dating members it will be your first experience of a date after a long gap possibly because of a previous long term relationship, work pressures or a variety of factors. Don’t worry the best thing is to go for smart casual unless the first invite is to fancy dress party. That doesn’t necessarily mean jeans but for ladies a smart pair of trousers and a colourful top or an unfussy easy to wear dress or skirt. The look is foxy 40 plus dating rather than high fashion, smart instead of skimpy. Remember the focus should be on you so hair and make-up are important rather than what you are or aren’t wearing. You can always reveal your personality in subtle touches. Shoes, handbags, belts can accessorise your outfit and you can dare to be more adventurous with these items. For the guys a handkerchief in the jacket pocket, a coloured well fitting shirt all make a great first impression
And please gentlemen as a mature dater make sure whatever you put on fits well. If it’s a cool day wear a jacket casual style though not to a suit. In addition an open neck shirt, clean tidy T shirt or jumper (please be careful with jumpers as ladies can find them a turn off) with again casual trousers not jeans can be an impressive outfit. Why the no jeans rule, because whatever your opinion is they do shout out loud, “I haven’t bothered too much” and is that the impression you really want to give on your first 40 plus date!
Ensure your hair is tidy and you feel the best you can be. Not too much perfume or after shave you want to leave a delicate fragrance not getting your date reaching for his/her handkerchief because the effect is totally overpowering. Don’t forget your teeth fresh breath is a definite plus.
If you want more advice ladies visit http://www.howtolookgood.com/fashionover40.html
and get advice on how to be fabulous at 40.
Gentlemen read the following article http://uk.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_300/336_fashion_advice.html
which gives great fashion advice for 40 plus men.
Remember there is always one thing you can wear that doesn’t cost anything and will always create a good impression…a smile
